It was a couple
weeks after Thanksgiving, 1999, on a usual Seattle area wintry, cold, drizzly day. I was all alone in the big car area behind an office
building. Sometimes my feral cat mom, sisters, brothers and I hid under
that building. My
feral dad left before I was born, so I never knew him. My feral
mom had left me alone, again, but this time my sisters
and brothers were missing, too. She was always doing stuff like that,
but usually she returned in a few hours with whatever food she could
hunt that day. This day was different. I was cold, wet, and hungry,
and I was scared, and certainly not used to being alone so long. I
started making that sound my brothers and sisters and I had made many
times when we were alone, the sound that used to bring the rest
of the family around. Once again, this time was different. Nobody
came. They were all gone. I was really alone.
Little
did I know there was a big human in the building right above where I
sat who had heard my cry. She went outside to have a look. I spotted her and
hid under the bushes as quickly as I could. I think she saw me
because she left and returned with another big human, and they were
pointing to my hiding place. I was no match for two of them,
so they captured me and the first human took me inside and put me in a
really big box. That was the first time one of those big people had ever touched
me. It was strange, but they were gentle, so it was oddly
comforting.
The human
(they called her Linda) said that my
cries were squeaky, whatever that was. She and the other humans thought
I might be a kitten of one of the feral cats in the area and guessed
that my squeaks were special to my family.
Linda held me and turned me
belly side up, and the other humans gathered around. They rubbed my
tummy, looked under my tail, and then announced that I was a boy. Next, they
got some food and something for me to drink. My stomach was a little
upset after eating, probably because of the new food, and they said I
needed some cleaning. After that they put me back in the box so they
could work. Soft shirts lined the box, but I
wanted out of that strange place. I got out a couple times, but
Linda always found me, and quickly, too.
I heard
Linda say she would
take me home, with hopes that her cat would like me. Home
we went, but, oh, boy, did that cat ever not like me! The next day
she took me
back to the office and everybody started talking about finding
me a home.
Chris (of Christine Louise),
another staff member, made some calls and found me a home that would be
available in a day. She took me home with her so she could give me to
those new humans. Oh, boy, another new and scary
experience - a car. I could tell we were moving, but I was clinging to
Chris' lap and staying as close as I could get. On the way we stopped at her mom's house. Chris had
told them I was extra cute and they wanted to see. Everyone made all
these "ooh" sounds and said I was the cutest kitten they'd
seen. I have to tell you, I think they were right. I was a tiny ball of long black fluff with
sky blue eyes, long white
whiskers and eyebrows, white tipped feet in the front and white boots in
the back, with white at my throat like an ascot (a word I later learned from
Mom). They called me
a tuxedo cat - an elegant sounding description. Anyway, back to
the big humans. They looked at me sitting in the palm of Chris'
hand, agreed that I was just as Chris has told them. They also
said that I was small enough to fit into a cup, whatever that
was. All I knew was that I was beginning to like this attention and soft touching.
We got back into the car
and I clung to Chris as we drove to her home. After eating, I needed
cleaning, just like the previous day, so I got my second bath. Chris
kept telling me what a good boy I was about being all wet, and she dried me quickly to keep me warm.
After
Chris fed me, cleaned me,
and showed me my box of sand for digging, she looked at me with this funny look on her face and
asked me
what she should do with me.
Now, how could I answer that one? Remember, I was only a baby.
All I knew was that I was just beginning to feel this nice new, warm feeling, and I
wanted to be close to Chris.
If I had known how to let her know, I would have told her.
There
was work to do, but Chris didn't want to
leave me alone, thank goodness. She folded an old baby blanket diagonally and tied the
skinny ends around her neck. Next, she put me inside the pouch that was
created, right next to her heart, where I was protected and warm. Up
and down the stairs we went for the following 3 hours. Occasionally, I
poked my head out to look at her, and then quickly tucked back where I
felt protected and safe under cover. I slept a lot, too. I
was warm and I was beginning to feel safe. She talked to
me in soothing, soft tones, and stroked my fur. Warm and safe -
just what I needed.
Oh, how happy I was to be
there, and Chris seemed to like me. After those hours in the
pouch, she told me she had made a very important decision. She said
that we had bonded (another word I learned later) and I was staying there with her, permanently. I had a new home!
I had a new mom! Chris was now my mom!
Mom
made a bed for me, my first bed!
Then she told me how happy she was to have me there with her, and said
"good night". This was to be the first of many of our life
routines.
The next morning I
heard her on the phone thanking the other prospective new family for
being willing to give me a home, in spite of their allergies. She
told them about our bonding and that I was going to stay with her.
This was a match destined to be.
Mom sneezed
a little, and has been fine ever since that first day. She told me recently
that I have characteristics of a Siberian cat, including that people
visiting the house never have allergic reactions. All this is
great, but my only concern is that Mom always loves me.
That
following night I rode
around in my pouch with Mom for 2 hours, and the third night it was 1
hour. After that I wanted some independence, and we settled into life
together.
She named me Redmond
because I came from Redmond, WA, (yes, the home of Microsoft)
where Mom used to work. She says I'm the best thing that came from
those years in Redmond.
Now we’re a team. Mom
has trained me, loved me, played with me and given me security. I
learned that even though life would have its disagreements and troubles, I
would always be able to find my safety in her. What a great
feeling!
We moved
from that first place, but still are in Kirkland. Stuff like that is important to a cat.
Moving was scary. First, there were all those
boxes for a long time, and then on moving
day I had
to stay in the bathroom for the whole day. Finally, all was done and Mom took me with
her to the new place. Moving to a new place
is so much work for a cat. We have to smell everything and find all the hiding places. The bigger the
place, the longer it takes. Anyway, I love it here now, with more
sunlight, lots of places to hide, and carpeted stairs to run.
I’m an indoor cat
now,
but I started out differently. When I was a little guy, Mom kept me inside until she was
sure I would be safe, until I was about 3 months old. After I
was injured twice in fights, Mom decided I would have to stay indoors
for my health and safety. Now you can understand why my house is
important.
Mom's
voice is so comforting to me, especially when she tells me how great I
am and how much she loves me. I just shut my eyes and relax. She makes me feel like all is right in
the world. You'd think all that would make me relaxed about life.
However, the feral beginning is still with me. I hide when someone
comes to visit. There's only one person (Savanah) other than Mom
who has held me, and she's the only person I come out to see. Oh,
well. I have Mom and that's all I need.
I've
learned it's not how you start in
life but how you finish that's important. I was a feral kitten on
my own in the big, scary world, but now I’m much loved and have a secure
home. Mom told me that lots of ferals have a terribly difficult life
and die early. Fortunately for me and for Mom, I found her,
my human for life.
I’m a smart cat, as
well. Mom says I'm very dog-like, another Siberian characteristic. Though English is a second language to me, there have been many
times I have understood Mom very well. She knows to get my attention first,
and then she tells me what to do, rather than what not to do. I like that,
and I think I learn better that way.
I have to
brag a little because I hear that most cats never pay attention to what
their "parents" tell them. I have awakened Mom only 3 times in the
8 years we’ve been together. The first time, she put me down
quietly and went back to sleep. Before going to bed the next night, she looked me in the
face, said my name, and then told me to let her sleep, to wait until
I knew she was awake before jumping up to greet her. I waited,
just like she told me.
The other 2 times,
well, it must have been that Mom was just too irresistible. A guy
can be just so good for so long and then there's a break. Anyway,
she repeated her same instructions (which I already knew), and for the
past 3 years I have resisted the urge to wake her. True story.
Except for where I jump up by
Mom's face in the morning, I stay off her bed -
because she told me to stay off. She tells me other things, too.
I'm still learning more English.
There are
just a few favorite places I have, like my bed in the
window where I can watch people and growl at strangers. Actually,
it's only when Mom is around that I act all brave and growl at someone
strange. I like her to know that I'm guarding her. I quickly
learn who lives around here and who is new. I have a
tall scratching "hotel" where I can watch the world from up high.
Then there's
under Mom's bed, and one special chair. Simple things of life
are so very important.
PetLaps basic
design and inspiration was my business contribution. Mom’s the creative, smart one who developed the
idea. We make a great team.
Here’s how Mom got the idea.
When I was on Mom's lap, my claws stuck into her skin and my fur
“decorated” her. To make things better, she set
out a small folded blanket. When I wanted lap time, she unfolded the
mass of blanket one fold and I curled up on that spot. When I hopped
off her lap, she folded the blanket closed and left it handy for the next
time. My fur stayed in the same place, away from her clothes,
and she had padding to protect her skin from my claws. I loved the
softness. I came to like it so much that if the blanket was missing
from
Mom’s lap, I would stop and wait until she spread it out. There have been only a few rare times that I have been on
Mom’s lap without that padding. I'm one lucky cat to become
accustomed to being treated so well from the very beginning.
And, so, PetLaps was
"born". Of course, I now have my own PetLaps, as you would
expect. I like my PetLaps better than the blanket. Sometimes I let Mom know I want lap time
by pulling at the folded PetLaps where it is on the sofa. I hear that my adopted cousin has done the same thing. We cats know what we like, and we know how to let our humans in
on the secrets.
The reason there's no photo of me
demonstrating PetLaps is
that Mom is the only one I allow to take photos of me, and it's a
bit awkward for her to take my picture while I'm sitting on her lap.
That’s about it. I guess
being an inspiration for something so cool is kind of like paying back
for all the loving things Mom has done for me. I’m smart enough to
know a good thing when I see it. Thanks, Mom!